I am shocked by the amount of guys here who would prefer or believe they will be single all their lives... and are just OKAY with it! First and foremost, there is no way we were not designed to have a partner. If we're designed to reproduce and have sex...then a partner must be involved. There's a reason why women get so attached after a few nights of sex and oxytocin (google it) running through their bloodstreams. From our primal ancestors to today... men, just as much as woman, need partners, and there are consequences involved for not fulfilling this requirement. From personal experience (and not from a simple random sample), I know too many men who have given up on the fact of finding women. They resort to constant nightly porn and masturbation and can not gather courage and willpower to approach women they desire and start conversation. They get too nervous, get the jitters, heart starts racing uncontrollably, and they flee. After many years of this, they throw the flag, and give up completely. During the day, they tell people they are happy living without a woman, but at night they are filled with insomnia and long for a beautiful woman to have sex with or be by their side. Much of this I blame on the Dotcom/Technological revolution of the 21st century, as too many men have become engulfed on computers, video games, and the Internet. As a result, I have seen quite a few suffer from common symptoms -- such as, hand sweats (can't even shake hands with men) and having to deal with an entire host of OCD issues because the little things in life take over their brains. Their gaming consoles, video games, and computers become their lives and prize possessions. There has to be a medium or were JUST WASTING OUR FUCKING TIME! I firmly believe we need partners... doesn't matter if your gay or straight... to live a happy and well-balanced lifestyle.