Many men date women who they know are not attractive at any level, except sexually. I see this as ultimately pointless, senseless, and stupid. I think many men would hope that this is true, but I believe it's a fallacy. Most of the hottest girls are snatched the quickest and marry the fastest. Men get greedy and to seal the deal, they will impregnate them as quickly as possible. Perhaps they are not thinking of this consciously, but I certainly believe they are doing it unconsciously. I agree. That's because in the end it's about charisma. Do you have the social know how? Or do you lack the self-esteem and only go for the girls that you think you can get? You have to know how to present yourself and show a high self esteem. Don't grow a beard, don't smell like shit, gel your hair, and take regular showers. Wear clothes that stand out and don't just simply blend with the crowd. When you walk, walk with power, strength, agility, stamina, and that you are better (or just as good) looking than the woman. Once you make her believe you are, success is moments away.