For me, it's always been difficult to understand what "love" really is. Some say you'll know it when its there, which I can understand fully. At the same time, any man knows that once you're out (down there), reality seems much different for those few seconds to a minute. It's almost as if nobody matters, women don't matter, nothing really moves you. Therefore, definitely love is more than sex. But the question is, have you ever felt that above and beyond feeling? Something that stays with you no matter if you're out, full, or ready to pop. I once had a teacher light years ago who would not agree that love really existed. He always proclaimed that it was simply like any other chemical reaction in the body and nothing more. I remember once I had a friend who asked me, "How long would you wait before you say you actually love this girl?" I said maybe about 1-2 weeks or maybe even a month. He laughed in my face proclaiming that it was way too soon and the woman would probably not be too keen on the word being used early in the relationship. Over time, it took me a while to understand when to say "I love you" to a woman. I think I got it down now though. When is the right time to say "I love you" and when do you really understand love? Do you believe in love? Share your experiences.