Pretty much nailed the entire problem. If I go a few days without jacking off I get the horn, checking out women i normally wouldnt aim for. So anyway if you dont get with a chick or lifes too busy or pickings are slim, there is no way in hell im not gonna bust a nut. I can not walk round horny as fuck, its annoying. My pal is in his late 40's and he simply says "fuck it i have porn" and thats him. One of the main reasons in my opinion that porn is used so much, is that its getting harder (lol) for guys to pull women, one night stands or long term. Western women have way too much power. As I've got older i can quickly filter out women who match up or dont match up and if i can be arsed making my moves. I mean what, its been nearly a year for me now and its the longest i have gone. But i have so much on my plate at the moment and my mind is that busy that getting a partner is way down on my list. I knocked back an 18 year old hottie recently, too close for comfort, my pal is her dad and im just like, fuck that... I got an offer from a till girl, but she is deaf, no seriously she is deaf. And I went to make a move and she knew I was gonna do it and she got nervous so i backed off. There is this chick that takes her kids to school, past my house twice a day and she is pretty, i think all id have to do is pretend to be working in the garden and just say hi and that would roll quite easily. But again older and wiser, two kids is a lot of work........ your right about the image burning its way in to the brain, after I jack off i go BLURGH! hahahaha - fucking mad.