Thanks ForceX. , It's nice to know some people understand. heh I admit that all of that IS true... but for one thing... how often does something like that happen? I don't think you'd just randomly get a "let's lay. right now." unless u were at the right city street corner at the right time OR you were starring in an "adult entertainment production". me... I'm 18, still untouched, but I'm kinduvan odd type. I've had a few opportunities and I know it. hell there's this one chick I know who has her pad free every weekend, and she hinted at that a few times, and at first I'd really consider it, and then feel like an idiot for even considering it. the thing w/ me is all I want is the girl's heart, and I leave the territory of sex up 2 her. I think w/ love and consent, hell yes, but just playin em and payin for their cab fair home, hell naw. this is one man's opinion though do what you will. to each their own. Yeah man! Right on, power to the people! umm... I feel the same way, i dont mind the sex or anything but i just need some moral support sometimes. kinda like a cheerleader but that you can do stuff with. I see guys G/Fs at the boxing gym all the time and just feel so damn envious at these flocks cuz they can get thier girls to go with them and support them, it's not that i cant get a GF(older women are always attracted to me for some reason) but i just want some girl who i can be on the same level with.