Explosive Misanthropy

MMM... See, she has her problems with girls, and I think she wants to be the only one here. I think it's silly to be an attention whore, so before anything gets taken out of proportion again, I'm going to dip. If I can avoid the stress from something this irrelevant, I will. It's really silly, and I'm not angry at anyone, I just think this whole thing is silly. I like everyone. And it wasn't just this one instance. There are other things in which I felt like my presence here was not necessarily wanted. So instead of asking you guys for help with my problems, only to have them returned with criticism, I'm going to go somewhere else, because after all, this is the internet. There's always something else. But I just want to clarify, so no one takes this the wrong way. I'm not angry with anyone. I'm typing this and I'm as calm as a Hindu cow. I might poke my head around, see what's up from time to time when I'm bored, but as of right now, me posting on a regular bases is just not going to happen. Reading what I say first usually generalizes things. It's not her. That situation was the icing. Ask Fatal Rose, I've been talking about leaving for a while. I just wish he'd mention that, instead of just sitting back and blaming it on something else. Nice to know you're trying to keep the peace man, but really? And despite what ever she says, I know she doesn't like me, because of a situation that never involved her, ever. I was told by an outside source of the way she felt about me. Blah blah blah call me immature, Ashley, what you say really doesn't matter. Never did. being a bitch towards someone unintentionally because they're a girl is immature. Not admitting when you're wrong then backtracking when someone calls you out on it is immature. Asking to have a thread deleted that shows it, is immature. I'm not saying that I'm not guilty of it, it just scratched me the wrong way that you couldn't even admit you were wrong. Even when it was between you and me. You're not the only reason I'm leaving, so don't get all giddy and happy. You don't need to be a bitch cause you don't think before you post to a girls response. That's all it takes, sweetheart, thinking. Fucking bag of retards we got here.

She said that she had a problem with her too cause she's a girl. That's silly to not like someone cause they have a vagina. I generally don't like girls either, but I'm not an ass goblin towards them.

MMM... See, she has her problems with girls, and I think she wants to be the only one here. I think it's silly to be an attention whore, so before anything gets taken out of proportion again, I'm going to dip. If I can avoid the stress from something this irrelevant, I will. It's really silly, and I'm not angry at anyone, I just think this whole thing is silly. I like everyone. And it wasn't just this one instance. There are other things in which I felt like my presence here was not necessarily wanted. So instead of asking you guys for help with my problems, only to have them returned with criticism, I'm going to go somewhere else, because after all, this is the internet. There's always something else. But I just want to clarify, so no one takes this the wrong way. I'm not angry with anyone. I'm typing this and I'm as calm as a Hindu cow. I might poke my head around, see what's up from time to time when I'm bored, but as of right now, me posting on a regular bases is just not going to happen.

I've been looking at different forums and what not, and I've noticed that there is no hostility towards anyone, ever. They talk through their disagreements. As well as knowing when they're wrong. Including apologizing when they're wrong. It just seems like a nicer environment in general.

Why should it get deleted?? This kind of thing happens all the time. Threads get throw off topic quite often. As long as no one is fighting, what's the point of deleting it?

His semen was all like "hello egg" and the egg was like, " yo" then the semen said, "bitch you nasty, I'm outy like a belly button" and it peaced the fuck out. The egg cried.

Lol I think the problem has been resolved.

Well, I have talked to Erica, and the guy she's seeing. The guy says that he doesn't think that he's good enough for her, which makes me angry, cause he could have said no to dating her if that's the way he feels. I just hope that the reason he's with her is so he can get his dick wet. He also says that he doesn't want to be with a chick with a baby, and so I think that he's going to be with until the paternity test comes back as negative. That is if. I hope that if Sebastien is his he realizes it's time to grow up. The guy is 24. Erica doesn't want child support, she just wants her son to know his dad. Which I think is silly. Not him knowing his dad part, the no child support part. When I talked to Ryan he said that he knew his own dad and he hated him, I just think he's worried that he'll be a bad father, but I would think that knowing what a bad father is, we would make the effort not to be one himself.

This was never the issue. I addressed her need to put her child first in my very first post. Obviously, that wasn't the key "advice" you were giving, given I already knew it. May I remind you that that was your piece of advice from your original post. That entire statement was directed to me and to the situation I was explaining, else the entire post was completely irrelevant and you never should have started typing. You felt it necessary to say it in the first place. And noticed the bold words. How general does that honestly seem to you. If you can't see where that's directed, you're blind. ...that wasn't a response. That was your original post.

I have no problem with other people's advice at all. But again, I do feel a responsibility greater than that of normal personal relationships because she's always needed me around. My post wasn't about how involved I am with her, because I can't change the way I feel about my involvement with her and her child. The thread was created because I was stressed about her current situation and with the guy she'd recently been in contact with. And the best I can do at the moment is to give her advice, I know that. But I can provide her with an opportunity for a better life in the future when she needs it. What I didn't like was the manner in which Hera responded to the post. In her original post, she talked about how Erica was "running away from her problems". I felt it necessary to defend myself and the situation.

Haha. Let's do this again. First of all, how can specific examples of her personality be creating an excuse? How can wanting a better life for her child to be an excuse? Ok, so if a child is in an abusive home, doesn't even matter the age, them going into a foster home would be running away from their problems? It's improving their life. Moving forward with their life. Creating better situations for themselves. That child will just grow up in his most malleable years in a home with abusive idiots for grandparents, and an overall disgusting house to grow in and learn from. If she were to come up here, it would be after she finishes school and so that she could find a job (which is fucking impossible in Altamonte, ask Will... ) and support herself. I don't honestly know you well enough to know whether you're sticking to your guns because you know you're wrong and you hate it or if it's because you're an idiot fundamentalist. But obviously you're a bit immature to think about it logically.

We don't have it anymore anyway. not to mention the lag from the PSN

Hell no. You don't say that and just end the conversation. First of all, I never disagreed that the baby was the important part of her life. "Another thing I'm worried about is that her son is only 9 months old, she needs to be spending the night with him, not going out and drinking, and staying the night at the Ryan guy's house. But that's how I feel. I feel like, when you have a baby, your time of doing all that shit is over. The second she decided to keep that baby, then her life becomes all about him. But, that's how I'd be. You have a baby, you sacrifice all that stuff. She feels like if someone is there to babysit, then she can stay the night out. Ugh, that shit bothers me. And I don't know how much better a foster care system would be for him." So don't tell me about learning lessons young, or try to explain to me what priority she should have. There's no confusion on that. Secondly, I said in my post that she's willing to submit to any person's will. She has no sense of her own self. You have no idea what her personality is like. You say that she knows the difference between right and wrong? She sent powdered concealer to NASA for no reason. She had the FBI posting out at her house for 3 weeks. She decided it was a good idea to walk around the mall at 3 a.m. knowing she was trespassed (not to mention being a minor, and being on probation with a curfew of 7:00). She takes money out of public fountains to buy cigarettes. She was spending the night at my apartment, and she decided to leave and meet a friend of ours, instead, she met up with some random guy, went home with him, then had sex with him. She never knew his name. Hence the "psychological reasons". Think of it as autism, just on a singular symptom of it. She does, in fact, need me. I'm the one that's been there since she was 3 years old. I've been the one keeping her normal. If I were never around, she'd still be in her drug-induced spiral into accidental suicide. The only reason she got with this guy was because I wasn't around, therefore I feel responsible. And you wouldn't want to get a person like that out of a shitty situation? To get her away from her abusive parents, her dirty home-life, her bad decisions--including associating herself with drug addicts when YOU KNOW she can do better? That's not called running away from her problems, that's called getting away from a bad situation to create a new, clean environment for her and her baby. It's easier and cheaper to live where I am. The people are nicer and it's a much more family-oriented place. Great for... say... raising a child? Fuck your so-called "lessons". Nothing you said was applicable, therefore your opinion isn't needed here, and now the conversation can be done.

i DEFINITELY NOT going to take your advice Why? Wow, it seems like no one can take a joke. It's pretty obvious that I wasn't serious.

Are you referring to me, or to Erica? . "you" meant as a general audience. But if you feel like it applies to you, perhaps there is something you should do about it. Well, I only asked because I wasn't sure if you were being a cunt or not. I talked to Erica today, and everything is fine. She has everything under control, and I'm not too sure where you got this whole last bit of your statement from. No one is running from their problems. No one hasn't grown up, nor is anyone blaming the world for their problems. I'm not even sure if you read the right thread before replying. Moving to Alabama isn't me running from my problems. What Erica does isn't necessarily a problem, it's a concern. Moving to Alabama IS me growing up. And last time I checked I AM facing my problems. You should inquire further before making irrelevant statements.