Have you tried Dawn of War? I suck at most RTS games, but I'm enjoying (and becoming quite successful) at this one because it's more about battle tactics then resource management (the latter which I always find a pain in the behind). You always feel like you have a chance at winning, even when you are on the backfoot, and because your units are grouped into squads and you can reinforce them quickly and easily when you loose a squad member, you never get wiped out without a fight, even when the odds are against you. Oh, and it's incredibly violent, too! Yeah, I own the Platinum collection which came with the first 2 expansions but I didn't play it much. I enjoyed it a lot though. But I left that box at home. However, I do have my copy of Company of Heroes here.