No, not at all, I couldn't care less about someone's gender especially in a forum. ALTHOUGH, if someone lies about their gender, that's pretty idiotic, now it's different if a member DOES NOT DESIRE to reveal his/her gender, there is nothing wrong with that. Gee Guys. Sorry for the drama. Did not mean to cause any! But in any event and anywhere to anyone such things should not be said. I hope he gets over it and is well. You have nothing to be sorry for.