yeh basically man go up to ur friend and tell him if he has a problem with it. Then its up to you what u do from there, meaning write another thread saying "He said No, What do i do" but seriously if he says No and you two ar good friends then you shouldnt man. Only one condition can get passed his No and that is if you and her see each other 2gether forever (thats scary). Thats my 2 cents