I got nothin' he'd listen too. LOL I am really anti drugs after you become a parent, it's hard enough completely sober, add drugs and alcohol in there and you are automatically a shitty parent in my opinion. pre kids I had no issue with any of that stuff, but Kids have ZERO control of their environment. it is the parent job to make that environment as safe and clean as possible, a few drinks here and there, no big deal I guess. I'm pretty square when it comes to parenting. get all that party crap out of your system before you go bringing helpless little ones along for the ride.