well truth time. If you are a grown ass man (and you are at 19) and all you do is play video games and watch anime then yeah you are gonna get shit. You joined the military... not comicon. for the most part those guys are not gonna understand you. and we know that unfortunately people lash out at what they don't understand. I only play games about 5 hours a week, maybe 15 hours a week right when something good comes out. and when I meet people I DO NOT mention I am a 'gamer'. Social people do not like anti social people and don't understand them. so unless you are willing to change who you are a little bit (be more social, take up a mainstream hobby, blah blah.) then deal with it. as for the racial stuff, unfortunately thats just life. as we see from our members from all over the globe it's everywhere.