It sounds like you've been slowing down with your sexual adventures. This may not be something you want to read, but I strongly believe that the key to finding the right woman is to first have a door for her to open. That door in my opinion is having a stable job, source of income, and a plan for the rest of your life. No woman wants a serious relationship with a man who they seem as "marriage material" unless the man has something to offer in return. Sure there are instances where this may not be the case, but I find them to be very rare. Just trying to help you out. You act as if I am unaware of this. I was vague as hell with my post, there was no reason to assume anything GC. All I did was post that am a romantic at heart and have yet to meet a women that measures up to my standards. You do not know what is going on in my life really and you have no idea whether or not I have trouble maintaining a relationship.