Sheesh Will, isn't Fatal being there, proof enough?? The fact that he is getting more prosperous in the stomach region goes to show you that he is living it up there. Just what kind of tangible proof you are looking for? if the company decided to pass you by for being an ass and a pussy, i am sure you will regret this and think what would have been the case if you just take up the offer straightaway. Your indecision is mind boggling at best. You are single, you don't have a family to feed. i have a wife, who is still working in Malaysia. I still have a house to service. Even I bite the bullet and decide to move to China, since there is opportunities there. Despite the fact that i have to be away from my wife and we only can meet maybe 2-3 times a year.