EM, 1emu ain't what it used to be? Believe me, this is the most civilised forum i have seen in the internet barring some eccentric members. Even in real life, you will have all sort of people, with all kind of styles, attitude that you need to deal with. If you can't deal with the people on the net, you might find it even harder to deal with people in real life as people wear "masks" in real life. Also I think Hera is being real nice already without resorting to some real nasty words. If you don't like her advices, you can just choose to ignore it. you still have the freedom to choose. Although now you choose to leave...... BTW, Hera is NOT the only girl here. We still have Bambi