Some good first times here, seems like a lot of you chose to wait until you were older -- probably a good idea. As for me, I had a girlfriend at 16 (my first real gf), and we did just about everything except sex, and that was fine with me. She was beautiful, intelligent, motivated, independent (but not too much), had a great family, and was very outspoken (I like that). She was a good Christian girl (lol), so she wanted to wait to go all the way, and that was fine with me. I waited two years for her and it never happened. :S After we broke up, I started dating this other girl (a redhead with a beautiful body and a decent face). She was a virgin and had done practically nothing with any guys. We spent a couple months getting comfortable with each other, and falling in love with each other, and eventually ended up doing it on a whim in my bedroom when my parents weren't home (I was back from college for a bit). It wasn't long, but I'll never forget it. We ended up having a very good relationship. I think we both learned a lot about ourselves and each other. We broke up a year and a half ago after four and a half years together. :S Just in case you were wondering, I did end up having sex with the first girl. We hooked up last fall and it was a great month or two, I fell completely head-over-heals in love with her again -- she did not feel the same. That relationship ended quickly and not well.