i hope for you and your kids sake u get all that out of your system, parenting involves a LOT of sacrifices on your part, like inky said it's your responsibility to create a great enviroment for your kids to grow up in so they can be a better value to society and a true representation of you and your parenting skills.parenting isnt just some fly by night, read some books and watch some videos kind of thing, its basically like having a second job. no basic to it, it is a second full time job. and double that when u got 2 or more, my kids keep me on my toes all the time.