The Theory on pornography

[Wizard]

Me and my ex watched porn together, then made some, that count?

[Shoma]

Never done that.... It sounds liike it would feel a lil awkward...

"Hey babe, you see right there, right there! Aw man! We need to try that. Yeah that chick is hot...I mean....um...."

 

I dont know what would we say afterwards, lol.

Edited March 11, 2007 by Shoma

[ken_cinder]

Yeah, and you can get back to us in 10 years when you're older and realize that porn doesn't create sickos.

My wife and I watch porn together all the time, it's not akward or wierd.

 

Sure, there are porn addicts that develop twisted thoughts of what sex should be, but their warped little minds were warped beforehand.

[Elazul Yagami]

Porn warps your perceptions of sexual intimacy and power relations, reducing the likelihood that you will ever be satisfied by a wholesome, monogamous marital relationship.

 

I guess it all depends whether that matters to you or society at large at all. I find it somewhat depressing but it's too late to do anything about that now.

 

perfectly said in my opinion really.

 

see the thing people don't notice, is for example, i'm not against drug use, you wanna do drugs, go ahead, but personally, i don't do alcohol or drugs for one main reason;

 

when you're high or drunk, you're feeling AMAZINGLY good.

then when you're sober, even if there's nothing to depress you, you end up depressed because you don't feel as euphoric as you did when you were high or drunk.

so real life becomes more or less a pain in the ass, because you're not high or drunk.

 

same works for porn.

[Private Biscuit]

when you're high or drunk, you're feeling AMAZINGLY good.

then when you're sober, even if there's nothing to depress you, you end up depressed because you don't feel as euphoric as you did when you were high or drunk.

so real life becomes more or less a pain in the ass, because you're not high or drunk.

 

same works for porn.

 

Quoted for truth.

[Elazul Yagami]

i forgot to add something;

 

 

see the thing people don't notice, is for example, i'm not against drug use, you wanna do drugs, go ahead, but personally, i don't do alcohol or drugs for one main reason;

 

when you're high or drunk, you're feeling AMAZINGLY good.

then when you're sober, even if there's nothing to depress you, you end up depressed because you don't feel as euphoric as you did when you were high or drunk.

so real life becomes more or less a pain in the ass, because you're not high or drunk.

and it makes you less willing to deal with the responsibilities and crap that hafta do with everyday living... henceforth you end up depressed, the opposite of what they're supposed to do.

 

same works for porn.

 

since porn is a quick and easy release,that requires no more of you than to download it, or buy it or rent it or borrow it or something, you end up less willing to put any effort into a real relationship because of the bullshit it naturally entails.

[Shoma]

i forgot to add something;

 

 

see the thing people don't notice, is for example, i'm not against drug use, you wanna do drugs, go ahead, but personally, i don't do alcohol or drugs for one main reason;

 

when you're high or drunk, you're feeling AMAZINGLY good.

then when you're sober, even if there's nothing to depress you, you end up depressed because you don't feel as euphoric as you did when you were high or drunk.

so real life becomes more or less a pain in the ass, because you're not high or drunk.

and it makes you less willing to deal with the responsibilities and crap that hafta do with everyday living... henceforth you end up depressed, the opposite of what they're supposed to do.

 

same works for porn.

 

since porn is a quick and easy release,that requires no more of you than to download it, or buy it or rent it or borrow it or something, you end up less willing to put any effort into a real relationship because of the bullshit it naturally entails.

 

Darnet! Im gonna write a poem inspired from your wise words^^.

ANyone can drink a few sips and not become completly influenced. Yet if a man is to drink the whole bottle in a few gulps he is demanding to be endowed in it's power. ARe you willing to say you dont watch such things in order to "release" stress? No one pays attention to affects of the sub-coucious mind. ALmost like types of music; rather instead of you acting bluntly upon the music immediately, it slowly leaves a tiny scar...but a deep one.

Edited March 13, 2007 by Shoma

[Elazul Yagami]

no actually i don't.

i quit watching porn AND jacking off over 4 years ago.

 

and i quit as a matter of willpower.... the first few months were hell.

but i managed by keeping myself busy.

and i didn't do it for a religious reason or any thing like that.

 

personally i believe we cannot allow our bodies urges to control our mind, rather it should be the other way around.