emsley Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Do shit for your self Daria, if your stuck on base its as good as a prison. My friend is a lot like you, and prefers his safe routine. But your obviously not happy with this,i see a man itching to get out here and do stuff. My buddy wont even go out for a beer with me, I try to build him up round women but he wont budge or make moves gets caught up in anxiety all the time, he loves to sit at home playing PC games and building guitars, I have noticed he has started smoking weed even though i warned him not to i said "look at me!!!" "you don want to end up like me do you!!!?" anyway he carried on smoking it. Stop grinding your thoughts, consider beer more often, and consider maybe even starting some anti depressants. your body is young and not fucked up, so hit the beer!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krosigrim Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 good advise. you can't really stay alone forever. because you are in a funk nothing sounds fun. but once you are in the moment I think you'll find some joy. not everyone is the popular guy with a million friends. but you need a few to stay sane. Do shit for your self Daria, if your stuck on base its as good as a prison. My friend is a lot like you, and prefers his safe routine. But your obviously not happy with this,i see a man itching to get out here and do stuff. My buddy wont even go out for a beer with me, I try to build him up round women but he wont budge or make moves gets caught up in anxiety all the time, he loves to sit at home playing PC games and building guitars, I have noticed he has started smoking weed even though i warned him not to i said "look at me!!!" "you don want to end up like me do you!!!?" anyway he carried on smoking it. Stop grinding your thoughts, consider beer more often, and consider maybe even starting some anti depressants. your body is young and not fucked up, so hit the beer!!!These guys got it right. Ill add this. I never want to do anything... nothing sounds appealing. This is often me talking myself out of things. Try to not let this happen. Honestly, go out and find something to do. There are a million things to do, it cant be that hard to find a few things. Of course Im used to living in Orlando where there is anything one can think of... Out here in VA Beach area there is not 1/8 of what Orlando has, so finding something is much harder. You may reject everything I have said but mark my words, you need to get the hell out of your room. Water Ski, Parasailing, (I dont know how close you live to activities like this. Pool, darts, go carts, perhaps a new hobbie? Build gas powered radio controlled cars. If you rot away in your room as I have for sooooo very long... you WILL regret it. You will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emsley Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 Been socially active is the first way to build future blocks for better things. You will meet assholes, dickheads, muppets, boneheads, and you will meet good guys, safe guys, super dudes who are positive people. get new friends and the women come later. 11 Send me your email please I have a book for you that you may find a good read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devia Eleven Posted August 21, 2010 Author Share Posted August 21, 2010 I wasn't planning on posting a reply to this thread, but I will now because this is the best forum on the interwebs. Many people, even my Dad is telling me that having no desire to talk or interact with people is bad. It's not that I'm afraid of doing it, which is the basic template for an anti-socialist, it's just that I don't care, I don't care what other people or doing, I don't care how your day is going, I don't care if you find me attractive, I don't care what a person thinks of me, I just don't care about any of it. It doesn't pique my interest at all. Because of this I just keep to myself, participate in activities alone unless I absolutely have to get someone else to do it with me. My life isn't about seeing how many people I can befriend, it's about doing anything I want, and if people want to criticize me because of my lack of interest in social interactivity, then so be it. I was basically generalizing, that in a stereotypical human society, my life right now, all of the symptoms, is ensuing, that I am a complete loser. I don't talk to many people unless it is absolutely necessary, I hate small talk because it goes nowhere, social gatherings don't do anything for me. Then again, like I said before, a socially active person will keep telling me, "If you keep living your life in social apathy, you will suffer, you suck, I hope you die", and I am accepting this, I don't care about conforming to everyone else's way of life. Anytime anyone inquires about how my life works, they basically tell me, "Well, since you're not a social expert like I am, who has sex with many girls, has many friends, goes to parties, drinks alcohol, and has very healthy social life, you aren't worth my time, you don't even deserve to look at me because of it". Why can't I just do what I want? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agozer Posted August 21, 2010 Share Posted August 21, 2010 Many people, even my Dad is telling me that having no desire to talk or interact with people is bad. It's not that I'm afraid of doing it, which is the basic template for an anti-socialist, it's just that I don't care, I don't care what other people or doing, I don't care how your day is going, I don't care if you find me attractive, I don't care what a person thinks of me, I just don't care about any of it.Quite the story of my life, although the one telling me is my mom. Occasionally though, I do care about how someone else is doing, and I ask because I really want to know, but this doesn't happen too often. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emsley Posted August 21, 2010 Share Posted August 21, 2010 women come last, you come first (literally and metaphorically) Everyday you get up - everyday this day is for YOU.Women are lucky if you talk to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inky Posted August 21, 2010 Share Posted August 21, 2010 you don't care about anyone or anything. yet you feel we should hear and offer advise on you're pissing and moaning?priceless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veristic Posted August 21, 2010 Share Posted August 21, 2010 Recognition? We all need it at times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solidius23 Posted August 22, 2010 Share Posted August 22, 2010 we don't NEED it we just think we do if u r counting on others to give u recognition then u r in for some serious fucking disappointment in life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatal Rose Posted August 22, 2010 Share Posted August 22, 2010 If you're a human you need human interaction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devia Eleven Posted August 22, 2010 Author Share Posted August 22, 2010 The only thing that can come out of making selfish threads such as these, is a verbal bashing over the head by many different people, much older than me. I should think twice before making this mistake again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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