Fatal Rose Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 Yes, I said it. I want her back. I've never REALLY wanted to get a girl I used to be with back, no matter how hurtful it was to let them go. I was not REALLY hurt about us ending, but I definitely felt I could have done a better job as a BF. I made way too many rookie mistakes and I cheated on her. Thankfully she broke up with me and she has no idea about what a total piece of trash I am. I'd rather her think anything she likes on how things ended between us. I was doing some research on how to get your ex back... I will paste some interesting things listed on various websites...10 Mistakes You Must Stop Now To Have Any Chance At Winning Back Your Lover...http://www.datingadvicesecrets.com/men/10-...-with-ex-lover/MISTAKE #1: Acting Overly Nice And Believing It Makes You A Great CatchI don't think I am doing that, we hardly talk. We seldom send text messages to each other and we seldom talk on QQ. I just act polite and casual. Not overly nice.MISTAKE #2: Trying To Persuade Your Ex To Come Back With LogicNot doing this.. It's probably not logical for her to be with me anyways. MISTAKE #3: Playing The Role Of Human DoormatAbsolutely not.MISTAKE #4: Showering Your Ex With Flowers And GiftsNope not doing this either.MISTAKE #5: Saying “I Love You” Every 5 MinutesI've never told a girl that.MISTAKE #6: Missing The Whole Point Of ChemistryI am confident I can pull this off with any girl I am into.MISTAKE #7: Giving Your Ex All Your PowerI think I made that mistakes a couple times when we were together, I also reacted way too emotionally to certain things that happened. Totally out of character.MISTAKE #8: The Looks And Money TrapNot sure what to say about this to be honest. I don't know if either has anything to do with anything in regards to me and my situation with her. I do know I've never tried to use money to win a girl over.MISTAKE #9: Mis-Reading The CuesDon't think this has ever been a problem for me. But at times I am oblivious when a girl is feeling me.MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELPObviously I am seeking help. Ok lets move on to another site/selection of tips...How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Backhttp://www.wikihow.com/Get-Your-Ex-Girlfriend-BackDon't get too jealous. I don't usually.Leave Her AloneAlready have done this.Cut off all communicationAlready did this too.Recover Emotionally. I feel recovered.Start talking to another girl.Done this too. I've already had sex with two different girls too.Act like nothing is wrong.Doing this.Look your bestI've cleaned up again.Build up confidenceI'm confident. If you want to get her back, then you should be the Alpha male.I have a ton more confidence now, back when we first got together I was out of practice and clingy.Figure out why one or both of you left.I was too emotional, clingy, complained a lot, argues too much, I was an emotional puss-tard, I was not myslef. Ok here's one more for the road...http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/2_dating_list.html 10. Reach out and touch herDone this, I called her today.9. E-mail herDifficult to do when I don't know her email. I can QQ her though.8. Don't "frequent" other girls.... (at least she has no idea)7. Don't ever forget birthdays or anniversaries Crap! Need to get on this!6. Call her every now and thenJust called her today for the first time in a long time.5. Analyze and study herI'll get to it!4. Don't be jealous; be on the look-outI'm not the jealous type.3. Don't play gamesI'll try.2. Hold your cards to your chestWill do.1. Stay in shape and improve yourselfDone this and continuing to do so.. So what do all of you make of this? I know to many of you she may not seem like anything special, but to me she is amazing. Many people tell me she is not even that attractive, but to me she is BEAUTIFUL!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inky Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 Leave Her Alone10. Reach out and touch her WTF?! it's one or the other. all those lists are retarded. there is no secret. you can eitherA: forget it. (best choice)B: guilt her in to taking you back. (won't last long)C: cry until she gives you a mercy bang. I'm sure Paul will come in here with a wall of text about alpha males and backhanded complements juking her into wanting you above food and water.I don't buy any of that crap though. sometimes you don't get any choice in the matter. if she's done for good. you're just spinning your wheels. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inky Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 and also.... those pics prove the magic of makeup. doesn't even look like the same girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatal Rose Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 Maybe it's meant as leave her alone for a while and eventually contact her after some time. She was the first to contact me after we broke up. Man I just don't know what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veristic Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 Lol too much to process. Good luck bro. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatal Rose Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 and also.... those pics prove the magic of makeup. doesn't even look like the same girl. Really? haha I only see a small difference. I prefer the pic without the makeup. I'm not into the heavy makeup thing. While we were together she hardly wore any. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatal Rose Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 Lol too much to process. Good luck bro. Come on buddy, you have to give me something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veristic Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 Lol too much to process. Good luck bro. Come on buddy, you have to give me something.Can't say i've got experience trying to win a girl back but you might start out being honest. Tell her you fucked up and go from there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emsley Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 I dont know anything. Just kidding, those sites you listed are "ok" but ryan you dont have to read up on this stuff because you are doing it right capeche?Leave all the website stuff alone!!! you dont need it. as far as im aware you two are quite far apart right? If your still in "magnetic phase" with each other you'll find a way.You parted on good terms so there is no reason really you two cant get back together.Other than that you just have to contact her, but dont declare your undying love for her is all i can suggest, keep it simple, keep it neat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatal Rose Posted February 4, 2011 Author Share Posted February 4, 2011 Thanks Paul. You always give me quality advice. So when should I contact her again? Should I wait till she contacts me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emsley Posted February 4, 2011 Share Posted February 4, 2011 just call her up, tell her your missing her just a "little" bit when she asks what your doing you can be honest and say your on toilet or you can lie, "im getting ready togo out to "insert fun place" , it would be good ifyou could get her to come to you, what are the chances of that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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