Mr.X Posted March 16, 2004 Author Share Posted March 16, 2004 Well what is current relationship with her? Do you work with her? Do you go to school with her? Is she in any of your classes? Do you think she's seen you before? I mean, it would be rather strange if some random 17 year old kid went up to a 21 year old girl and asked her out. You need a pretext, a reason to talk to her. And I like Plasticslug's plan. She's a neighbour ; flat entry 28... Mine is 39. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PLasticSlug Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 She's a neighbour ; flat entry 28... Mine is 39 get your ass up there right now and ask her to lunch or dinner, or dawn of the dead! this friday!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wizard Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 A simple "Hi" would start anything. Befirending is always good too you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cominus Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 Oh you know whats good, by a lot of food and tell her that a friend didnt come over and invit her to eat and just start things from there, or randomly* meet her somewhere and talk to her. Randomly*=find out where she likes to go and bump into her there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cominus Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 (edited) damn, double posted, oh yeah and 38 and 29 arent neighbors, thats like down the street. Edited March 16, 2004 by Cominus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ffynnon Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 I never thought I'd see relationship advice given on an emulation board. Interesting. And some of it quite insightful! I'd agree with the confidence angle. The bumbling Hugh Grant just doesn't work in reality (unless of course, you're Hugh Grant--but even he resorted to hookers, so what gives?!) #1 is LISTEN. If you get her talking--get her to talk about herself. Her likes, her dislikes etc. Listening is EASY. Try to remember at least a few things she says--even if they're incredibly boring or mundane. If you can follow up later in another conversation and say "so how's mittens?" or "what did you think of that _____ you went to?" you'll score big points. This shows you took the time to LISTEN, and that makes her important. If you sense you've been lumped into "friend" territory, come clean and flat out ask her out somewhere. Better to be rejected and move on (really--trust me!) than to pine over something that will never be. Sorry if some of this has already been covered--I admit I skimmed the larger posts. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-VIOLENCE- Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 (edited) ummm if you want to get the girls " BE YOURSELF " also " BE UNIQUE " most women now a days dig the "mysterious guy" who stands outalso, the METROSEXUALS are getting attention from the ladies as wellsince the bi's have been wiping the floor with the straight boys ladies behind their backs and if you're ugly then... get really rich and wear nice clothes like the metrosexual boys here is a cute metrosexualish outfit. the stretch lowrise button fly jeans with the flaire at the bottom.unforunately for me since i'm petite i can't fit into these mens sizesso i comb the womens juniors departments most straight boys might think this style is homo, but they're just hatin cuz they don't have enough self confidence to pull it off. besides with a look like that the babes might think you're a frontman of some indie band from norway so that's a ++++ baggy trousers are out* Edited March 16, 2004 by -VIOLENCE- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gryph Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 (edited) " BE YOURSELF "But then right after you tell him how to dress to get girls. Edited March 16, 2004 by GryphonKlaw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-VIOLENCE- Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 yeah huh? just some fashion tips Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cominus Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 Dude...Either go for it and risk being shot down or forget about it and live the rest of you're life running away from everything crying like a little b@$@h. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForceX Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 You will never know if you don't try..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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